FAQ

I'm a cis-woman, why can't I orgasm during sex?

More than likely you're defining sex from the hetero-normative scope. Meaning sex begins with a man's erection and finishes with his ejaculation. This definition is fine for some but VERY limiting and misleading for a large percentage of the population - who like yourself - do not orgasm based on the activity or inactivity of a penis. 2/3 of women do not orgasm from penetration alone, they need focused stimulation of the clitoris which is the primary-pleasure-part for anyone with a vulva and vagina. The clitoris is a "button" above the vaginal opening and just below the top of the vulva. It has 8000 nerve endings and is best stimulated with fingers, a tongue, a vibrator or even water.

I made a video on this you can watch HERE